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Ashli Brown's avatar

Cheers to you for giving language to the feeling that so many feel yet don’t know how to articulate… I too am starting over in a way and it feels good to finally choose me before everyone else. My seed to anyone who has the sense “this isn’t it” is to get still and go within and answer the hard questions that you’ve been ruminating on. The big question for me was “is this desire mine or was it programmed am I who I desire to be or am I who I think other want me to be” to anyone reading my comment and journeying to begin again I wish you traveling grace 🫶🏽

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Siobhan J. Middleton's avatar

Oh I love the questions you ask yourself. So many of us are living our lives based on what was instilled into us vs choosing our own path. It’s hard work and yet so worth it. In the book Untamed, the author asked herself similar questions and her answers challenged her to discover what she truly wanted.

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Karen Wesley's avatar

Yes! That’s the book that sparks the thoughts. Since then, I’ve made changes, we’ve gone to therapy and the thoughts are still there. There are lots of extenuating circumstances, but when know. You know.

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Siobhan J. Middleton's avatar

I agree Karen, when you know you know and you can't unknow what you know. Untamed is one of those books I circle back to often even though I've drastically changed my life in the best way. If you're ever in need of support or guidance, I wrote a book that will encourage you along the way. Wishing you the absolute best on your journey.

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